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If you are in need of a custom weighted comfort bear that weighs more than 12 lbs, please contact us at for more information on how to order a bigger bear. While our 17″ Phoenix Bears have a max weight of 12 lbs, we have resources for bigger bears that can be weighted up to 20 lbs. You will be responsible for buying your base bear from our Amazon List for Bigger Base Bears & having it sent directly to us. The cost is $25 for modifying / weighting the bear and adding a blanket to it’s hand. Shipping depends on size & weight of the bear and where it is being shipped to and will be determined after the bear is finished and packed for shipment. Shipping Fees will be due before bear can be shipped out. We can only ship within the USA at this time.

Additional Fees apply if you want to add on Angel Wings ($10), Embroidery ($10-$20), and/or a printed Memorial Certificate ($10).

***COMING SOON*** Butterfly Kisses & Dragonfly Wishes Shop

Our eldest son is starting an online shop in honor of his baby brother, Phoenix, to provide meaningful memorial gifts for bereaved families. There are weighted “Xavier Bears” that can weigh up to 20 lbs, as well as beautiful memorial “Zion Bears” available for purchase in his shop. There are weighted “Phoenix Friends” (a variety of plush animals) as well as other Baby Loss Memorial Gifts such as Angel Baby Key Chains, bereavement cards for various occasions, The Dragonfly Collection custom cards with your child’s photo, family artwork made from a current family photo with your baby added in (either just your baby added in or Jesus holding your baby), etc.

Support Groups:

  • Be Still – stillborn but still born – still a parent – God is still God (our new Facebook support group)
  • Hope Family Care Ministries (send/receive a HOPE bag, online or in person Hope Unshakable groups, as well as retreats for the whole family)
  • Hope Mommies (Facebook group, meets once a month in person, retreats for moms, & special events)
  • MEND – Mommies Enduring Neonatal Death (Facebook group but also special events)
  • MOHA – Mother’s of Held Angels (podcast but also meets once a month in person)


  • The Moon is Always Round by Jonathan Gibson (great for young siblings but message is great for grown ups too)
  • When God Called Piper Home by Julie Brawner (great read for parents, might be appropriate for an older sibling)
  • Tear Soup by Pat Schwiebert & Chuck DeKlyen (timeless classic for any age) & grief workbook for kids available to go along with the book
  • You Could Have Been….. – by Annie-M (precious book to read TO your baby that died)
  • Mommy, Please Don’t Cry by Linda Deymaz (beautiful, made for mamas but I also read it to my 3 year old and just omit the word “mommy”)
  • We Were Gonna Have a Baby but We Had an Angel Instead by Pat Schwiebert (good for kids)
  • My Sibling Still by Megan Lacourrege (good for siblings)
  • The Invisible String by Patrice Karst (sweet for kids, about being connected to the ones we love, even in Heaven)
  • God Gave Us Heaven by Lisa Bergren (great for kids, about Heaven)